I began my teaching career by accepting a position at a school where over a period of three months, in the sixth grade classroom I was assigned to, there been several substitute teachers. By the end of the week I had packed my belongings and decided to inform the principal I wasn't coming back. Well look at me now!!
I would not be here today if I had not been given support from not only my building mentor but also the mentoring program the district offers. The ability to make me laugh (even when I didn't want to) and to look at the big picture (I was in charge, not them) is what kept me from walking out that day. When I reflect back on how my mentor assisted me, I can clearly see that good mentoring is like good parenting. You have to help a baby learn how to walk before it can run.
One thing we are not taught in college is how many hats many of us have to wear during a school year. I think organizational skills are important to master because most of us agree life is just so much easier if you know where something is when you need it! A skill I need to further develop is to become a better listener. When I first began teaching sometimes I just needed to vent (still do from time to time) and didn't really want to be given any ideas or suggestions. I just wanted someone to hear how I was feeling and to release built up frustration. One of the most important things I want to discuss with my mentee is how important it is to take some ME time EACH day. They need to be aware that we are caregivers at home and also in this profession. We take care of so many, but if we don't take care of ourselves everyone loses out.
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ReplyDeleteAs I reflect back on this year in the induction program, I have to say that it's been so fast paced at times that it seems like a blur. I always hope that I've provided the support that my mentees needed in order to have a manageable first year at St. Marys. Feedback from these two wonderful teachers was always positive, so it made my support for them that much easier. I've learned as a mentor, that sometimes you have to really listen to what your mentee says, because they don't always say outwardly what they need (since they don't always know) and it's up to us to read between the lines on what they really want. Being a listener was a trait that was stressed in our beginning sessions and I have to agree, it is very important. As this school year comes to a close with the furlough days and all that it entailed, I have to say that I'm satisfied with my efforts and I look forward to my mentee next year in working together for their success. I've enjoyed this experience and I look forward to the support from Betsy and all the TSS staff. Have a Great Summer Everyone
I also wanted to reflect back on my journey through TSS land. I am really glad that I applied and was selected to become a TSS. I believe we should all pass along the knowledge that we learn through the course of life, no matter how old you are. I had a student intern from Auburn this year and had a great experience. She taught me just as much as I taught her. I believe this Internship has not only made me a better Mentor but a more insightful person.
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